Rafael Vidaurri

Before we start a trip, we like to plan it out.  We use a map to chart our destination.  We make a list of all the places we would like to visit.  Pack our clothes, camera, and anything else we may need. Once everyone is in the car, and before we head out on the open road, we push the reset button on our car's tripmeter.  This act marks the beginning of the trip.  A total refresh. There are times in our lives when we as individuals must reset our own tripmeter.  If something is going wrong, if our plans are not playing out, a total refresh is just what may be needed.  But before we do, we must use trip planning as an example.  Whether it is a change in career, relationship, or other important part of our lives, we must plan it out, seek advice, and prepare. If everything is in order, the anticipation will build, and we will be ready to push that button!

A few days ago, someone asked if an entry level job opening in land surveying would be a good fit for his son who had no experience but was incredibly eager to learn.  I told the individual that the worst that could happen was the that his son would not get the job and I encouraged him to try anway. Shortly after the discussion, he very passionately told me that in his younger years he had studied drafting and surveying but that unfortunately due to circumstances beyond his control, he was unable to finish his studies.  He told me that it was his dream for his son to take the same classes but to actually finish them and graduate.  His eyes really opened wide when he spoke of his son as he was so very proud of him. I asked him what was stopping him from continuing with his studies. He said he was too old, too tired, etc.  I told him that age was not an issue.  My next statement really encouraged him.  I told him, DO NOT BE AFRAID and go back to school ....

Some of us have chosen to ride a steam powered train.  Others have chosen diesel power, and others a bullet train.  At times, our train speeds up and at others it slows down.  Regardless of the speed, we have all chosen to ride.  We must take care that we are not riding a runaway freight in which jumping off would be too dangerous. Which leads to the question, when do you jump off?  When do you realize that you have spent too much time in the dining car watching the scenery flash before your eyes?  There comes a time when switching trains is the best thing to do, even if it means getting a few bruises from the fall!  Don't worry, another train will come by to pick you up.